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windychimes) wrote2010-11-27 11:31 pm
windychimes) wrote2010-11-27 11:31 pm
In which I am overly sensitive and privileged
Am I wrong for being uncomfortable with the phrase: ...ftms are always so delectable. >,>;; ?
I am not FtM, I cannot speak for a group I am not in. But the fetishization of a group makes me so uncomfortable. It is not saying you like an aspect of the group (in this case, androgyny), which is fine; people have preferences, etc. But saying a group is 'delectable' is reducing them to nothing more than a sexual object.
Perhaps I am being over-sensitive on this. It is a group I am not a part of, it is not my place to speak to them.
I think I am alienating myself from a group of friends with this. And with taking issue with someone demanding to see the eye socket of someone missing an eye.
I feel like I am setting myself up for a fall here.
i think i am becoming mildly bisexual, but only for [fictional character]
I just. Ugh. Fuck.
I am not FtM, I cannot speak for a group I am not in. But the fetishization of a group makes me so uncomfortable. It is not saying you like an aspect of the group (in this case, androgyny), which is fine; people have preferences, etc. But saying a group is 'delectable' is reducing them to nothing more than a sexual object.
Perhaps I am being over-sensitive on this. It is a group I am not a part of, it is not my place to speak to them.
I think I am alienating myself from a group of friends with this. And with taking issue with someone demanding to see the eye socket of someone missing an eye.
I feel like I am setting myself up for a fall here.
i think i am becoming mildly bisexual, but only for [fictional character]
I just. Ugh. Fuck.